This is my grandmother. I call her Laolao because she is my mother’s mother. She was born in China in 1938 during a time shaped by instability, conflict, and an uncertain future.

After the passing of her own mother, my great-grandmother, she wrote 不会忘却 (Bù Huì Wàngquè) an account of their experiences during China’s War of Resistance in WWII.  It is told through the eyes of A Hui, a five year old girl whose family is forced to flee their home, becoming refugees in their own country. Tens of millions of people in China shared a similar fate during this period.

[ Never Forgotten ]

A work across generations

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Laolao circa 1960

Laolao wrote this work to honor her late mother, whose strength and resilience ensured the survival of their family. Today, I am translating and publishing this piece to carry her legacy forward and to preserve a story that might otherwise be lost.

This story reminds us of the often overlooked resilience of women and children and echoes the displacement and struggle that continues to affect families around the world today. 

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Laolao and me 2000s
Illustration of three oranges on a branch with white flowers and green leaves.

Never Forgotten is a project dedicated to remembrance and preservation — for the generations that come after me and for anyone seeking a deeper connection through family history. 

This website is dedicated to publishing and sharing her work, and the book will be ready to share soon! 

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Chinese calligraphy Buhuiwangque
Minimalist line drawing of a mountain range with a large central peak and smaller surrounding peaks, in a dark olive green color on a black background.
Line drawing of mountain peaks on a black background.